Book
Blurb:
Sandra.
Fearless, headstrong, and dominant, her personality sets the stage
for a family dynamic that will affect all members for the rest of
their lives, the youngest sister most of all. The complex
relationship between these two sisters spans over forty years of
events and results in a final act of redemption, restoration, and
forgiveness. The story demonstrates how one can flourish despite
circumstances and motivates the reader to live their best life every
day. It is a story of family, growth, and the overwhelmingly powerful
impact of unconditional love.
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My
thoughts
Life
can be daunting at times and these tough times will change the way
you look at life. It can shatter you into pieces and at the same time
can help you in learning the lessons of life.
The
author has detailed various aspects of life in an enchanting way that
only a few can do justice to. And the way she has portrayed the
circumstances at hand is heart wrenching and inspiring at the same
time. There are moments in the story that will make you feel bad and
sick. You will be left with the thought,
“Why
God do you make it so difficult?”
The
story begins with the author's sister Sandra smile, on a wheel chair,
which is worth a thousand dollars. The story describes the lifestyle
of the author's family and mostly revolves around the protagonist of
the Sandra and how her behavior impacts people around her. The life
of Sandra is the inspiration behind the book.
Deborah
and her family were black and lived in a period of racial
discrimination but were mostly able to live a happy life. The author
describes how her elder sisters were jealous of her when she was born
and had the feeling that the love of parents may diminish with the
addition of new member of the family.
As
you flip through the pages you will face the hard reality of the
protagonist who is paralyzed in her mid twenties after she was shot
by a bullet. Though she survived the bullet but the saddening truth
was that she had to be bed ridden throughout her life. The author
describes every part of their lives in detail and how things have
happened in the due course of life.
There
were circumstances in the story where I could feel that I can no
longer read the tough times, the author was facing. Sandra was
quadriplegic, which means she had no control on both hands and legs.
Had
this not been enough she was facing charges for
burglary and for stealing a credit card she
did before her paralysis
and was taken to the court being tied to a cruiser. It must
have been
heart wrenching for a mother to see her child in such a situation.
In
the latter part of her life she was diagnosed with cancer and had to
go through complete mastectomy.
This
made me cry and I dared a tear to trickle down my eyes. I couldn't
have stopped it though!
Even
though going through so much in her life the author says Sandra had
never asked God, “Why me?” Had
I been in her situation I would have broken down and as opposed to
her will power would have asked God “Why me.”
Again
what made me sad even more when at a particular situation the had
described that Sandra had gifts for her but was eagerly waiting for
someone to open it for her.
But
her will power to survive and to face the hard realities of life
makes her a hero, one with an undying spirit.
It
is an ultimate book on self realization shown through ones life
story.
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